有些人是自己把自己养大的 Some people raise themselves by themselves 在他的成长过程中 In his growth process 父母处于"无知"的状态 Parents are in a state of "ignorance" 没有给到物质帮助，也没有给予精神引导。 Not providing material assistance or spirituar guidance 所以迈入社会之前，他都是一个混沌的状态 So before entering society, he was in a chaotic state 他学到的规则就是"听话" The rule he learned was' obedience' 学到的做事方法是"别人都这么做" The learned method of doing things is' everyone else does it this way' 他从来没有审视过自身的特别之处 He has never examined his own uniqueness 这样的小孩，要么屈服，成为跟父母一样的人 Such children either take it and become like their parents 要是不甘心，出了社会，就得重新把自己养一遍 If you're not willing to leave society, you'll have to take care of yourself again 他得把从前的自己打碎 He has to shatter his former self 从里面找到真正属于自己的碎片 Find the fragments that truly belong to oneself from inside 重新给自己捏一个形状 Pinch yourself into a new shape 重新学习人际规则，社会法则 Re learning interpersonal and social rules 自己给自己建立一套规矩 Establish a set of rules for oneself 一点点打磨自己，一点点填补自己 Gradually polish oneself, gradually fill oneself up 这个过程，短则几年，长则十几年 This process can be as short as a few years, and as long as over a decade 绝望的时刻有两个 There are two moments of despair 一个是觉醒的时刻 One is the moment of awakening 忽然发现一切都不是自己想要的 Suddenly realized that everything was not wha 面对前路 Faced with the road ahead, 无所依仗 without a place to rely on, 惴惴不安 anxious and uneasy 但是一旦扛过去，一切就都好起来 But once we carry it over, everything will be okay 一个是重组的时刻 One is the moment of reorganization 把自己敲碎之后， After smashing myself 发现几乎没什么东西剩下 I found that there was almost nothingleft 从前的日子都白过了 and my past days were in the past

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