Those who grew up having to earn love are likely to spend their adult years accepting scraps of affection.
They apologize for needing attention,
Feel grateful for basic respect,
And thank others for doing the bare minimum.
These individuals work overtime to prove their worth in relationships.
They over-function
Over-extend,
And over-complicate simply dynamics.
While holding themselves to impossible standards of perfection.,
They write lengthy excuses for other people’s poor behaviour.
Yet,
What they’re chasing,
Isn’t really love.
It’s validation of the worthiness they never got to feel as children.
Still trying to earn what should’ve been freely given,
Still trying to win what should’ve been their birthright.
Love,
Isn’t a reward for good behaviour.
Worthiness,
Isn’t something to be earned.
A healthy relationship does not call for constant auditioning.
Real love feels like peace, not like proving.
You must understand:
You were always worthy of love,
It’s just you were surrounded by people who were incapable of giving it.
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